Trauma Therapy in Seattle, WA & online throughout Washington & Oregon

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Your trauma may be behind you, but the shadow of it lurks right next to you every single day.


  • It’s been a while since your trauma, but you still feel like you don’t recognize yourself. It changed you in ways you don’t fully understand.

  • You’re suspicious of other people. It’s hard to feel close to anyone, and the idea of trust or vulnerability scares you.

  • You struggle to stay fully present, often dissociating or feeling numb, like you’re just going through the motions of your daily life.

  • Your feelings can change out of nowhere. One minute, you feel okay; the next, you’re hit with a wave of emotion or overwhelming memories that feels like a flashflood.

  • You feel on edge all the time; you’ve forgotten what it’s like to feel safe. Your life has become too narrow, and you don’t enjoy things like you used to.

Are you tired of feeling broken?

  • You don’t understand yourself; you’re not sure who you are.

  • You’re exhausted from the constant effort of walking on eggshells around others; you can’t relax or let down your guard in your relationships. 

  • You wish you could stop going out of your way to please people who don’t even treat you well. But somehow, you just keep overextending yourself, carrying the brunt of responsibility in all your relationships—reaching out, making plans, taking care of them. And nobody knows how lonely you are.

  • You think sometimes about setting boundaries. But then you hear that voice: What if you hurt someone’s feelings? What if they push away? What if you’re not even strong enough to set a boundary?

  • Holidays that celebrate family are painful, because you feel caught between the boundaries you’ve set to keep yourself safe and the pressure to sweep it all under the rug and hang out with your family-of-origin like none of the bad stuff ever happened.

Trauma leaves you feeling like the “before” has been erased forever—and maybe for you, there was no before.

It’s time to stop shrinking yourself and making your needs small. You matter.

It may feel impossible now, but you can feel whole again—or for the first time.

Are you ready to put trauma behind you?

I’d love to help you get there.

I know what’s waiting for you…


A tender, compassionate relationship with yourself,

and vibrant connection with the people you choose.

 

Areas of Expertise

 
  • Life-threatening or overwhelming experiences such as:

    • Car accidents or serious injuries

    • Assaults

    • Witnessing violence

    • Natural disasters

  • Series of events that occur repeatedly over time, such as:

    • Abuse of any kind (verbal, physical, financial, sexual, etc.)

    • Chronic neglect or abandonment

    • Psychological abuse or gaslighting

    • Bullying

    • Discrimination/oppression

    • Sexual harassment

    • Relational trauma, including:

      • Domestic violence

      • Sexual abuse or non-consensual sexual experiences

      • Enmeshment

    • Destabilizing events during childhood such as:

      • Parental divorce

      • Controlling parent(s)

      • Emotionally unavailable parent(s)

      • Physically absent parent(s)

      • Parent(s) with mental health difficulties or poor boundaries

    • Adult children of alcoholics (ACOA)

    • Children of emotionally immature parents (EIP)

    • Generational trauma

 

I often hear people who have experienced trauma say:

  • “I know it wasn’t my fault…but I still wish I would have done something differently.”

  • “I know I’m not a bad person…but I still can’t shake that thought.”

  • “I know what I’m doing isn’t working…but I don’t know what else to do.”


My Approach

I focus on how we can get that logical “knowing” to seep down into the deeper parts of your brain, to end the conflict between your “logical self” and your “emotional self.” You’ll begin to feel aligned inside, able to genuinely believe, and even feel, those things you say you “already know.”

I help clients engage in deeper processing than traditional talk therapy can offer. With somatic approaches such as Brainspotting and EMDR, you’ll learn how to tap into your brain’s natural healing processes to recover from trauma and find freedom from all the ways trauma has held you back from living the life you were meant for. 

Through the whole process, I’ll tailor each step to your unique needs and circumstances, and consider all aspects of who you are as an individual. I’ll help you gain and maintain an authentic mind-body connection so you can feel more stable, secure, and able to trust yourself and rely on others again—or for the first time.

I’ve spent years researching and working with attachment and trauma, and I have a special passion for working with complex or attachment trauma.

We’ll spend time in therapy helping you understand the relationship between your past and how you feel today, to uncover what parts of your emotions and behavior patterns are really about the past and what parts are about the present. Through this work, you’ll learn to heal from your past, so you can respond to pain in the present day in a healthier and more effective way.

Trauma therapy can help you…

 
  • Have a safe space to finally unpack the painful experiences you’ve been carrying inside.

  • Find healthy and effective ways to cope with symptoms like fear, anxiety, or panic, numbing or dissociation, and negative thoughts.

  • Feel like you can breathe again, sleep soundly, and slow down and be present enough to soak in the good things in life.

  • Reconnect with your authentic self and feel at home with your body.

  • Learn to cultivate secure, vulnerable relationships with safe people who will respect your boundaries and honor your needs.

  • Move through life as a confident, emotionally resilient, self-compassionate person.

  • Honor your self-worth, set boundaries that meet your needs, and feel empowered to create the life you’ve always wanted.

Approaches

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    Brainspotting

    “Where you look affects how you feel,” and we can harness this phenomenon and help you find deep, meaningful, long-lasting change.

  • Close-up of a person's face focusing on green eyes, with dark eyebrows and smooth skin.

    EMDR

    Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing can help make painful thoughts, feelings, and memories more bearable.

  • Silhouette of an adult holding a child up in front of a lit window with patterned curtains.

    IFS

    Internal Family Systems helps you heal your relationship with yourself.

  • Person holding a camera lens with a landscape of water and mountains visible through the lens, with a blue sky and clouds in the background.

    Intensives

    If weekly 50-minute therapy hasn’t yet helped you find peace, learn how 1-3 days of focused trauma therapy can change your life.

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You don’t have to live life feeling disconnected, misunderstood, and alone.

I’m here to help.

— Amanda Buduris, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist, Brainspotting & EMDR therapist, and Certified Safe & Sound Protocol Provider

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Trauma Therapy FAQs

  • Trauma means different things to different people; it’s less about what happened to you and more about how you experienced it. Ultimately, I see trauma as anything that happened to us that overwhelmed our ability to cope or find a sense of safety. 

    If you have trauma, some of these symptoms may sound familiar:

    • flashbacks or nightmares

    • dissociation (think of “going blank” or “zoning out”) or lapses in memory

    • difficulty regulating emotions, including feelings of depression and anger or irritability

    • feeling on edge or hypervigilant

    • struggling in interpersonal relationships

    • low self-esteem or negative self-perception

    • avoiding people, places, or scenarios that upset you or remind you of the trauma

    • problems with setting or maintaining boundaries

    • difficulty maintaining healthy relationships 

    • social anxiety or generalized anxiety

    • difficulty with being alone or fear of abandonment

  • Trauma therapy is individualized to your needs, symptoms, and circumstances, so it can look different for different people. And each session may look quite different from the last, as we adapt treatment to your strengths and struggles. 

    I have trained in multiple trauma-focused modalities, and I combine these with pieces of traditional talk therapy and modern somatic approaches to create a treatment style that fits you. For example, you and I may use Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to learn skills to manage intense emotions; mindfulness skills to learn to attune to your mind-body connection; or Brainspotting or EMDR to dive deeper into your emotions and life experiences so you can finally feel free from what’s been haunting you or holding you back.

    We will always begin by forming a solid therapeutic relationship. It’s so important for you to feel comfortable in our connection; your sense of safety is my top priority. I welcome feedback about how I can make your experience better!

  • I’m excited about the opportunity to support you on your journey towards trauma recovery! The first step is to schedule a 20-minute consultation, so we can meet and see how we connect. The connection between a therapist and client makes all the difference in therapy, so if either of us decides we are not the best fit, I’ll be happy to provide you with referrals so you can get the care you need.

  • How long you spend in therapy can vary based on your needs and goals. I’ve worked with some trauma survivors for a short period of time (6-8 sessions), and with others, for much longer (20+ sessions). I am trained in forms of therapy (Brainspotting and EMDR) that tend to help people experience relief more quickly than traditional talk therapy; most people don’t need years to recover from trauma if they’re getting effective treatment.

    While some people come to therapy to focus on one specific event (and therefore might finish their course of therapy in a shorter period of time), others choose to meet with a trauma specialist for an extended period of time to process multiple traumatic events or simply to have a safe space to come back to as needed when triggering events happen. 

    If you are interested in making progress as fast as possible, or if your symptoms are severe and you need relief, I recommend you consider a trauma intensive. This is a premium format for trauma therapy, where it’s possible to condense months of progress into a few days.


 

Trauma therapy in Seattle, WA

Services are also offered virtually throughout Washington & Oregon