Narcissism & DARVO
In recent years, the term "narcissism" has become increasingly prevalent in discussions about personality traits and interpersonal dynamics. Narcissism, rooted in Greek mythology, refers to a personality disorder characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, a need for excessive admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. The rise of social media and a culture of self-promotion have greatly contributed to the visibility of narcissistic behaviors in society today.
My partner thinks we should go to sex therapy…
Sex therapy is often the first step that many couples take in hopes of fostering deeper connection and satisfaction in their relationship as a whole. But, it isn’t always the most successful or sustainable route to take. As a couples therapist, I've worked with many individuals and couples who’ve ultimately discovered that the source of their disconnection goes deeper than sex.
I’m the only one who wants change in my relationships…
The journey of self-discovery and healing is often fueled by a desire for positive change in various aspects of our lives, including relationships. However, one common frustration that emerges is the realization that, despite your personal growth and evolving perspectives, the same may not be true for those around you.
What does it mean if I’m judging my partner?
As humans, we're wired to make judgments—it's an inherent aspect of how our brains process information. Even in romantic relationships, it's not uncommon to find ourselves passing judgment on our partners. However, the key lies in understanding the nature of these judgments, recognizing their impact, and fostering open communication.
I thought my trauma was behind me…
Many individuals believe that their traumas are safely tucked away in the past. But, past wounds can suddenly and unexpectedly find their way into the present, influencing emotional well-being and daily functioning. As a therapist specializing in trauma recovery, I understand that it can be surprising to discover how the impact of past traumas are subtly shaping your day-to-day life.
Interdependence vs. codependence
In the realm of relationships, the balance between interdependence and codependence significantly shapes the dynamics between individuals. As a therapist specializing in trauma recovery, I often meet with individuals and couples who need support in navigating this complex topic.
Can I repair relationships if I’m conflict avoidant?
In this blog post, we'll explore what it means to be conflict avoidant, the impact of childhood experiences on conflict resolution, and how therapeutic work can empower individuals to repair relationships even when conflict feels challenging.
Rethinking New Year’s Resolutions
As we approach 2024, the tradition of setting New Year's Resolutions can be both inspiring and overwhelming. From social media feeds filled with ambitious goals to conversations buzzing with self-improvement plans, the pressure to join the resolution bandwagon can be intense.
Navigating the holidays when you don’t get along with family
As we approach the holiday season, a time traditionally associated with warmth, joy, and family gatherings, the reality for some individuals can be quite different. For those who don't get along with their family, the holidays can evoke a range of emotions, from anxiety to loneliness.
Setting boundaries in a romantic relationship
Setting boundaries in romantic relationships can often be a challenging task, as many individuals tend to question what’s “acceptable.” However, just because it’s a romantic relationship doesn’t mean you aren’t entitled to and deserving of boundaries.
Uncovering repressed memories
Repressed memories are memories that have been unconsciously blocked from conscious awareness due to the stressful or traumatic nature of the events they represent.
The balancing act of teasing in relationships: When fun crosses the line
There's a fine line between harmless fun and hurtful teasing that can strain a relationship.
The fastest way to heal from trauma: Brain-based therapy approaches
Read about why brain-based therapies are the fastest way to heal from trauma and how therapy intensives using these modalities can be even more effective for those seeking rapid symptom relief.
Why am I always doubting myself?
Self-doubt is not an inherent trait; it's a pattern of thinking that can be overcome.
Overcoming emotional/binge-eating
Oftentimes people use emotional eating as a form of self-soothing without even realizing it. At times this can spiral into binge-eating which leads to further distress and frustration.
Why am I eating when I'm not even hungry?
Do you ever find yourself in a situation where you're eating even when you know that your body doesn't need the extra nourishment?
Breaking free from the cycle of perfectionism and people-pleasing
Breaking free from this cycle can be a difficult and ongoing process, but it is possible with the right tools and support.
The Perfect Storm: How perfectionism and people-pleasing lead to mental and physical health challenges
Perfectionism and people-pleasing behaviors may seem harmless, but they can lead to significant challenges that affect both the mind and body.